You are beginning to regret that you loved him blindly and trusted him.
Perhaps, you gave him everything and he is paying back with pain, tears, and hurt.
Many people will tell you that ignoring him will make him feel guilty but that is prolonged silence and won’t make him feel bad for hurting you.
If you’ve thought about sending him a brutally honest text, then that’s the way to go. In this article, I’m going to show you 50 different ways you can tell him how you feel and make him feel bad and guilty for hurting you.
Time’s ticking, so here:
50 Best Paragraphs To Make Him Feel Bad For Hurting You
- I’m incredulous at your actions towards me. It’s difficult for me to envision forgiving you after this. My trust and faith in our relationship have been shattered.
- I believed I held a significant place in your life, but your actions have shattered that notion. I’m experiencing profound pain and feeling betrayed.
- Your actions have left me questioning who you are. I never imagined you could betray and mistreat me in such a way. My trust is shattered.
- I had high hopes that you would support me, but you failed to show up when I needed you the most. Your absence left me feeling disappointed and let down.
- When I was in need, you disappointed me greatly. It’s hard to trust or depend on you now. How can I be sure you won’t let me down again?
- I feel saddened and lonely because I can’t trust you to support me when I need it. It’s disheartening to know that I can’t count on you.
- “I’m feeling unloved and worthless due to your words and actions. I need time alone to contemplate this and determine how to proceed with our relationship.
- I believed you loved me, but your treatment suggests otherwise. I’m reconsidering our relationship, as I don’t think I want to be with someone who behaves this way.
- If you truly cared for me, you wouldn’t have done it. Your actions have hurt me deeply, and I hope you feel remorseful for causing me pain.
- Lately, you’ve been making me cry a lot. It’s easy to hurt a woman, and if you feel guilty, that’s the intention. Please stop causing me pain.
- If you hurt my feelings, it’s impossible not to feel guilty about it, unless you don’t truly love me as you claim. Please be mindful of my emotions.
- Our relationship has changed due to your hurtful actions, but you seem unaffected. Do you not feel guilty? Please acknowledge your wrongdoing and take responsibility for it.
- It seems like you no longer feel remorse for hurting my feelings. I miss the days when you did. Can we talk about how we can improve our relationship?
- I’m not responsible for how you hurt me, it’s your fault. Don’t feel guilty, but acknowledge your actions and take responsibility for the consequences.
- I express my gratitude for helping me recognize my worth and realize that I deserve much better than what I had settled for. Thank you.
- I’m unsure of who you are now, and how you’ve changed my boyfriend. Our relationship doesn’t feel like it used to. I need answers.
- I believe our relationship isn’t working, and it may be best for us to part ways. It’s time for us to pursue separate paths.
- Although I have sympathy for you, your actions yesterday were unacceptable and deserving of guilt. It’s important to take responsibility for your behavior.
- I am angry with you, and I don’t plan on letting go of this emotion anytime soon. I need time to process my feelings and work through them.
- It would be great if you could consider others’ feelings and needs too, instead of always prioritizing your desires and interests. Let’s practice empathy.
- After considering recent events, I’ve concluded that I’m unable to place my trust in you any longer. Our relationship is affected.
- I hope you found value in your actions and they were worthwhile. Please let me know if you want the gifts returned, you can keep mine. Our relationship matters more than material possessions.
- I don’t sense enough remorse from you for ignoring me, despite your apology. Your actions have hurt me, and I hope you’ll show genuine regret.
- Thanks to you, I’m experiencing the worst feeling I’ve had in recent times. Your actions have caused me immense pain, and I hope you understand the gravity of the situation.
- Despite my outward composure, I am still seething with anger due to your disregard. My feelings cannot be overlooked, and an apology is warranted.
- It’s hard to say which is more bothersome: being disregarded or not feeling remorseful about it. I find both behaviors hurtful and disrespectful.
- I’ve noticed a shift in your behavior lately, and it seems like the days of you being a thoughtful and compassionate boyfriend are fading away. It’s concerning.
- I didn’t anticipate your recent inclination to make me feel unhappy and underestimated the extent to which you would take on the role of a hurtful boyfriend.
- It’s incredibly disheartening that I return home to a boyfriend who brings me down. Such negativity can be extremely frustrating and impact my emotional well-being.
- When you display an indifferent attitude towards me, it reflects poorly on you. I hope you become mindful of how your actions impact our relationship.
- I have always been happy that you are mine so I will continue to cherish you. However, I am extremely disappointed that you would hurt me this way. I will need some space for myself to process my thoughts and how to navigate this situation.
- I am surprised at your attitude. I never expected that this is the way you will lead a relationship life with me. I’m not in for it. And I’m contemplating reconsidering my stand in this relationship.
- There is a clear difference between making someone feel bad and hurting their feelings. You hurt my feelings and I even doubt that you know what this means. I am not happy with you and how this relationship is going.
- We’ve come a long way in this relationship and I have seen you as someone I want to spend all my time with only to realize you don’t even feel the same way towards me. It will take a long time for us to get back to how we were before what you did.
- I still wonder what I have done to deserve this treatment from you. It would have been better if you had told me earlier that you were not interested. I’m beginning to regret the first day we met and I gave you attention.
- Yes, I’m the one crying today. Thank you. But I want you to keep in mind that nothing lasts forever. I should even thank you for playing such a role in my lifetime. I now know what type of person I do not want as a partner.
- We’ve been together for years and I have rejected all men just because I love you and want to be with you. If this is your way of reciprocating then I guess all that was in vain. I’ve moved on and no amount of apologies from you will change that.
- Do you know that you hurt me with your actions? Don’t even pretend that you are not aware. I am very disappointed and will call you the worse thing that has ever happened to me, irrespective of the time we shared
- I want to be sure of how much you still need me in your life because your words and actions no longer tally with all the sweet things we say to each other. It shows how much you don’t care again and I’m ready to move on.
- With all the trust I showed you, it still baffles me why you have to do this to me. I feel betrayed and it is unfair. Well, karma has just finished her drink and is asking for the next address.
- Despite how hurt I feel due to your actions, I still don’t want to regret having you in my life so I’m hoping you change your ways.
- I understand that true love can hurt sometimes but not in the way that you make me feel. I have always wanted peace in this relationship but your actions are contradictory. It seems hard to achieve peace with you and I will be forced to move on.
- If you tried to hurt me just to prove how powerful you are, then I want you to know that you just presented yourself as the weakest man I’ve ever encountered in my lifetime. Don’t cause me pain if you cannot help me.
- You cannot claim to love me and still take tears down my eyes. You have to put yourself in my shoes before you choose to hurt me. I blame myself for trusting you in the first place.
- With what you’ve done, it will take a significant amount of time for us to get back to how we used to be. You hurt me real bad and I won’t take revenge. Just know that you will meet it in the future.
- To be very honest, I don’t want to say anything to you right now after all you’ve put me through. You are a coward and I regret knowing you in the first place.
- It takes a toll on my mental health as I continuously try to fix us and all you do is bring it all down by hurting me. I don’t want a boyfriend who hurt my feelings.
- I want you to stop hurting my feelings intentionally or otherwise. Is that too much to ask? How would you feel if the table was tuned?
- It is obvious that you even go out of your way just to see that I’m hurt. If this doesn’t bother you then I don’t know what else to say to pull the plug on everything. My heart is not strong enough to take this ache.
- Since the day we met, it has always been about you but this time, I will not allow you to hurt me and let it slide. I am done with everything that has to do with you. I’ve taken enough of your attitude.
Parting thoughts
It’s understandable to want your boyfriend to feel the impact of his actions on you, but sending a text message to make him feel bad may not completely give you a smooth sail into a perfectly tranquil state of mind, recovery, and inner peace.
It’s important to take some time for yourself to process your emotions and thoughts. Take some space away from your boyfriend to figure out what you need and want from the relationship.
Once you’ve had a chance to process your emotions and have an open conversation with your boyfriend, it’s important to decide what you want for the future of the relationship.
If you don’t feel like your needs are being met or that you can trust him, it may be time to consider ending the relationship.
Remember that your feelings are valid and you deserve to be treated with respect and care.