The art of making a girl fall head over heels for you is something a lot of guys do, but uniquely. You would be amazed at the rate of effort most guys put in order to make sure they get not only the attention of a girl but also her interest.
One of the ways in which they do this is by professing all forms of promises to the girl, and part of it is by telling the girl ‘anything for you’.
As a girl, without even being told, you’d deduce that any guy who makes use of this line is seemingly up to something.
He probably has something up his sleeves and it could be his way of telling you how committed he is, to making sure you deem him worthy.
However, there are other intents behind this statement and I will be doing justice to them in this post.
4 Possible Reasons Meanings When a Guy Says Anything for You
You can think of a million reasons why a guy would say anything for you, but on the flip side, you may be getting all of them wrong at the same time.
Therefore, it would be in your best interest if I let you in, into the best of reasons why he would say that. I’m convinced my long-term experience would be a worthy asset in bringing clarity to you.
On that note, here are 4 plausible motives when a guy says anything for you.
- It means he’s trying so hard to impress you
- It could also mean he wants to prove his love for you
- It might even be his way of cajoling you
- It indicates his sincere effort of showing support to you
It Means He’s trying to Impress You
The current dating pool is a typical dog-eat-dog type of setting and in that way, everyone fights to look for a way to stay relevant no matter what.
Every guy in your dm or one who’s trying to get fond of you will always try to surpass his competitors in any way possible. And that would include throwing in captivating lines such as saying anything for you.
While this line is aimed at staying in the top class of relevance in your eyes, it is originally a good start for him to impress you.
Therefore, you should consider it a shot at impressing you when a guy says anything for you. You should note that the relevance on your part doesn’t count if you don’t feel stirred by whatever move, line, or action he makes.
I can say for sure that a lot of women love being impressed. They regard guys who try so much to make an impact on them.
This impact can come in different forms, spanning from monetary value to intellect and even satisfying gnashing of genital parts.
I wouldn’t be so sure of this if I don’t have any of these standards myself. I value men who put in the work and show effort, so if a guy says anything for you, I wouldn’t think far away to realize he’s trying to impress me.
You should also consider this as a plausible motive behind this line.
It Could Also Mean He Wants to Prove His Love for You
Aside from the obvious reason of trying to impress you, a guy can say anything for you with the motive of proving his already professed love interest.
You may still be a bit out of place to assume complete certainty that this is the reason why the guy made the statement, especially if his confession of love didn’t come in well articulated.
But on the sideline of being uncertain, you can still agree with me that the male figure who threw that line on you is trying to establish his affection for you.
Perhaps, he could’ve made the statement while he intervened for you in time of need, or he did an unexpected but crucial favor to you and threw in the line. I had an experience that suggests that this reason is not only plausible but could even be the major motive in your case.
A coworker who had tried some advances on me found a newer way of doing so by lifting some office functions off my desk while I still got my full pay.
When I confronted him about it, he said, anything for you. At that instant, it clicked to me that he was trying to further prove a point that he has already been hinting at.
It Might Even Be His Way of Cajoling You
While the intentions behind some of the things guys say to ladies in order to facilitate there are true, most of them are not. This unfair truth could be one of the reasons why a guy would say anything for you.
I can attest that the mind of a woman is fragile and can be easily tweaked, especially when a guy a saying the right things at the right time. On that note, this line could be a ploy engineered by the guy to buy your mind over.
Since the line deduces some kind of commitment on your part, a guy who realizes this can use it to his advantage. Although I’ve not really had any elaborate experience regarding this, I believe I’m knowledgeable enough to fall prey to such deceit.
In the same vein, you should also take note of this as one of the best implications when a guy says anything for you.
It Indicates His Sincere Effort to Showing Support to You
Away from the subject of the dating pool, a guy who has genuine intentions towards you can say anything for you as a way of portraying his effort to support you.
It could be a distant friend or a close acquaintance. The bottom line to all of these is that there may not be any form of affectation in play.
The line is just his way of showing his interest in supporting you without really expecting anything in return. It is also an indication that he’s out to help you out with anything without having to look out for anything from you.
What to Do When a Guy Says Anything for You?
Getting to just know the reason why a guy would tell you anything for you without having a response plan is not a complete setup.
Based on that, you should have plans of serving a deserving response or action plan to the guy who throws you that line.
However, what you do is dependent on how you perceive the line. If you think it is a bit cocky like I do then there’s a chance you’ll have the best replies to the guy.
Without much ado, let’s get to the list of things that you should do when a guy says anything for you.
- You should not be excessively expectant
- You have to apply caution while believing him
- You could even consider his love interest
- You should come up with a response
You Should Not Be Excessively Expectant
This has to be my foremost tip on what you need to do when a guy says anything to you. Considering the intensity of the statement, it is just wise if you try to cut down on your expectations.
That way you stay afloat any form of disappointment that could’ve arisen with the guy’s statement.
When a guy says anything for you, you should know that it is a form of a promise to you and since trusting humans with promises is a near-impossible act, cutting down on what you expect from them is the only way out.
I have been living with this principle for a long time and it has to be one of the best decisions I’ve made as a person.
You Have to Apply Caution While Believing Him
Just as you try to stay moderate with your expectations towards the guy who says anything for you; you should also apply caution in the aspect of believing him.
This is because belief breeds conviction and once that’s established there’s room for things to go south, hence the disappointment. Therefore, I wouldn’t do anything abstract from telling you to be cautious.
You Could Even Consider His Love Interest
The best of what you can possibly do when a guy says anything for you is to consider his love interest.
While this could be a hard task for you, especially if you don’t feel the same way about him, there’s room for more. More bonding, more consideration, and eventually more love.
Nonetheless, this tip is only valid if you feel that he is genuine about his promise of doing anything for you. And the only way of finding out about it is by paying close attention to whatever act he throws your way.
If you notice any feigning in what he does for you and even his attitude towards other people, you should know that something is off about it.
On the contrary, if everything he does and says feels as natural as ever, then there’s a good chance he’s clean and true about whatever promises he makes to you.
Based on that, you can then move on with considering his advances or better put love interest.
You Should Come Up With a Response
I have a strong opinion that putting up an action without a comprehensive response is an incomplete way of reacting when a guy says anything for you. Therefore, you should have a good response readily available for a guy who says anything for you.
Moreso, just like your line of actions, your replies depend on how you also perceive the guy’s statement.
A mild and polite response goes for a genuine perception of the guy’s statement while throwing comebacks suits perfectly if you think he’s just being a jerk.
Fortunately, I’m an expert with replies of all forms so you might want to consider some of the examples of replies that I’m about to highlight.
Comebacks for When a Guy Says Anything for You
Polite Responses
- I appreciate your concern
- That’s so sweet of you
- You’re nice and it’s evident
Unacquainted Responses
- I won’t fall for your empty words
- I wish I cared less
- You really don’t have to go all out to please me
- Can we skip to the part you stop with the flirts
Conclusion
Your initial mindset of suspense could be quite similar to mine when I first heard a guy say to me ‘anything for you’. I was plunged into a pool of thoughts, trying so hard to decipher the puzzle in the statement.
However, I finally got the answers I needed by sitting well longer in the question. That same realization is what I’ve put together in this post, which elaborates on the cause and possible effects when a guy says anything for you.
Starting off with the reasons behind the statement, I made sure I left no stone unturned while penning down plausible motives for the infamous line.
Moving on, I introduced a couple of action-packed reactions which you should incorporate when a guy says anything for you.
I’m convinced you’ve had your doubts cleared and is headed on to make informed decisions whenever a guy says anything for you.
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