You can simply respond by telling him you will think about it. This is a reply you can give if you are not really sure about going to see him in his place.
You cannot just go visit a guy you barely know. It is not done. You need to know that there are two responses you can give to a guy who invites you over. Take a look at the other responses you can give.
20 responses to a guy who invites you over
- I will think about it.
- Give me some time; I have not made up my mind
- I do not know you well, so I cannot come over.
- What exactly are we doing together at your place?
- You don’t know me so well to the extent of inviting me over
- Are you sure you do not have a girlfriend?
- Are you married?
- Please, I am married. I can’t come over. Let’s meet at an open place.
- I have a boyfriend. I’d rather we meet somewhere else other your place.
- Can’t we just talk via video call?
- Is there something so urgent that I have to come over?
- I’m sorry, I don’t visit people I don’t know.
- Of course, I would love to
- This sounds like it’s going to be fun.
- Yes, it’s a date.
- Sure, what do you want to do?
- I’m not sure.
- Could we go on Friday instead?
- I’m sorry, we can only meet at public places.
- Let me ask if my boyfriend is OK with that.
- Don’t take it personally. I don’t think I can
I will think about it
This is a safe reply you can give if you do not really know this guy very well and, at the same time, you do not want to reject him. Just respond by saying you will think about it.
In the real sense, you are going to think about it, but you just need to buy some time to see if you actually want to go see him in his place.
Give me some time; I have not made up my mind
This reply shows that you have not fully made up your mind if you want to go see him or not. You ask him to give you some time to decide. This reply is best if you do not know him from anyone, and you want to find out a few things about him before you agree to go see him.
I do not know you well, so I cannot come over
This is a straightforward answer that tells you that you cannot go see a guy who you do not know well. You only visit guys you can trust to an extent, and you can only visit them if you have known them for a long time. But as long as you do not know him well enough, you cannot go visit him so soon.
What exactly are we doing together at your place?
When someone asks you to come over, you need to know what exactly both of you will do together. This is an important question you need to ask, especially as a woman.
Even if you are going to agree to go to his place, make sure you ask him what you guys are going to do together to be sure if it is something you will like to engage in. If it is not, then do not agree to go.
You don’t know me so well to the extent of inviting me over
This is a reply you can give if the guy inviting you over is someone you don’t really know very well. Ask him why he is inviting you over if he does not know you well. This will help you know what his intentions towards you actually are.
Are you sure you do not have a girlfriend?
If a guy has a girlfriend, why would he want to invite you over? Is he cheating on his girlfriend? You never can tell.
That is why you need to ask him if he has a girlfriend, because it will not make any sense if you end up in a fight with his girlfriend just because he invited you over.
If you notice that he has a girlfriend already, the best thing you can do is to not go to his place. This is for your own safety.
Are you married?
Ask him if he is married. Some married men are fond of asking other women out and inviting them over to their houses. If you visit a man who has a wife, you definitely will not like how his wife will react to it.
If at all, his wife is violent, and she may even hurt you for trying to make her husband cheat. If he is married, the best thing to do is to stay away from visiting him at home. If what he wants to see you on Friday is really important, consider meeting in an open place.
Please, I am married. I can’t come over
Let’s meet at an open place: If he is trying to invite you over, remind him that you are married and it is improper for you to visit him in his place as a married woman.
Let him know that if he really wants you guys to meet, you guys should meet somewhere else aside from his place. That is the ideal thing to do.
I have a boyfriend. I’d rather we meet somewhere else other than your place
Sometimes, even when you are dating, your boyfriend will not be comfortable with you visiting another guy in his place.
Tell him you have a boyfriend and your boyfriend is not comfortable with you visiting other guys in their homes. The ideal thing for you to do is to meet him outside, probably at a cafeteria.
Can’t we just talk via video call?
If you do not trust him enough to visit him in his place, simply ask if you can talk on video. If it is something that you can both talk about on a video call, that would be better.
Instead of having to go all the way to his house, If it is something that can be discussed on a call, then you go ahead and suggest it to him. This is even cost-friendly because it saves you the money you may have spent on public transportation.
Is there something so urgent that I have to come over?
Reply by asking if it is so urgent. If it is not that urgent, suggest that you both see some over time, because you are not ready to go to his place to visit him. Something that is not so urgent can wait. You can both see this physically at some other time.
I’m sorry, I don’t visit people I don’t know
This is a direct reply that says you do not visit people you do not know. Visiting someone you do not know is such a risk.
As long as you do not know the person, then you should not visit him at his place. I would suggest that before you go visit him in his place, make sure you know where you are going. This is for your own safety.
Of course, I will love to
If he asks you to come over and you are sure you want to. Simply put, you will enjoy it. But you have to first know that it has to be a guy you already know and trust. If he invites you over and you accept, then maybe you already like him. If you like him, then tell him you would love to come over.
This sounds like it’s going to be fun
This is a reply you can give if you really want to go to his place to see him. A reply like this shows you know him already and you are comfortable with going to see him in his place. You are ready to have some fun with him when you go over to his place.
If there is someone inviting you over to their place, as long as you trust and know him, there is nothing wrong with going over to his place to see him.
Yes, it’s a date
This is a reply that shows you obviously like this guy and you have been longing to go out with him or have a date with him. This is a perfect opportunity for you.
If he asks you to come over to his place, simply reply by saying yes, and that it is a date already. This reply also communicates to him that you are willing to spend some good time with him.
Sure, what do you want to do?
With a reply like this, you have already agreed to go to his place to see him, but you want to have an idea of what he wants you both to do when you go to his place. It is good that you have an idea so that when you go over to his place, you will not feel lost like you do not know what is going on there.
I’m not sure
This is a reply you give if you have a tight schedule and you are not sure if you will be able to make it over to his place that day.
Let him know you have an appointment with your doctor on the day he tells you to come over to his place. What you will do is that you both can reschedule or maybe you both can see in a place other than his place.
This is a better option for you, instead of going all the way to his house just to see him, when you have an important appointment with your doctor.
Could we go on Friday instead?
If he tells you to come over to his place on a particular day, and you know full well that you will not be available that day, if you are really interested in going over to see him, just ask him if you both can meet on a Friday instead, because Friday is when you will be less occupied with activities.
This shows you are interested but you want to see him on a day when you are less occupied. A Friday is a good option because it is weekend, work ends early on some weekends, you both can see at a cafeteria.
I’m not attracted to you to that extent
Usually, you would prefer to see a guy you are attracted to by going over to his place.
If you know full well that you are not attracted to this guy who invited you over to his place, simply tell that to him so that he becomes aware of what your intentions are towards him.
Reply him this way, let him know that you are not attracted to him to the extent of going over to his place to see him.
I’m sorry, we can only meet at public places
This reply shows that you can only visit guy in a public place. You do not visit guys by going over to his place. Once he understands this, he understands your stand when it comes to visiting guys in their place.
Don’t take it personally, I don’t think I can
This is a straightforward reply that says you cannot visit him. You have your own reasons for not visiting him. You also tell him to not take it personally.
Conclusion
When a guy asks you to come over to his place, you have it in your power to either accept or decline. These replies I have shared in this article will help you when you want to send him a reply if he invites you over to his place. You will not run out of what to say again. Whatever reply you give him, he needs to not take it too personally, especially if you reject his invite.