It is derogatory for someone to call you a bottom. If the person does, you should not take it with the person. It is good you have good comebacks to give the person.
The comeback is a way of communicating to the person that you are not happy about what he did and that he called you a bottom.
To make it easier, I have written 20 comebacks you can use when someone calls you a bottom. That way, you can use any of the comebacks and it will hit hard.
20 Comebacks When Someone Calls You A Bottom
- Are you any better?
- You do not know what you are saying
- Do you think I care?
- What makes you think I take your words seriously?
- You barely even know me
- What do you hope to achieve with that?
- If you plan to make me feel bad, it will not work
- You seem to be in a bad place, I can help you
- I did not realize that you were this rude
- I recommend you walk with your remote control
- You talk a lot
- Please do not speak if you do not have anything good to say
- Is that the best you could think of?
- I feel like you are worse than I am
- You should think before you talk
- I am ignoring you, Please do not interrupt me
- You say crap all the time
- I will give thanks for the day you say something that makes sense
- Now I know why no one likes you
- I need you to not speak, Is that too much to ask?
Are you any better?
This is a good comeback that you can give. Someone that is calling you a bottom may not in any way be better than you.
That is why this is a good comeback that you can use. Once you ask if the person is any better, he himself will start to question himself if he is any better.
This is a good comeback that you can use.
You do not know what you are saying
This is a way of telling the person that he has no idea what he is saying at all and he should try to comport himself and have a good knowledge of what he will say before he even says anything.
That way, you are giving a good comeback and you are also indirectly telling him how angry you are about what he said to you.
When you give a good comeback like this, he will not say that to you anymore.
Do you think I care?
This comeback shows that you do not care about what the person says to you and you are not even paying attention because you know that what the person is saying or about to say has no meaning and will not benefit you in any way.
Asking him if he thinks you care shows that you care less and there is no point telling you that you are a bottom if you do not care.
What makes you think I take your words seriously?
You already know that he does not say meaningful things and because of that, you stopped taking his words seriously.
Tell him what makes him think that you take his words seriously. That way he will understand that you do not even see him as a relevant person because he does not say anything good that will benefit you.
You barely even know me
This is a good comeback that you can use, he barely knows you so what call you a bottom? He should not even judge you at all because he knows nothing about you.
It will be rude to call you a bottom when he knows literally nothing about you.
This is a good comeback that you can use anytime someone calls you a bottom.
What do you hope to achieve with that?
Ask him if there is a hidden agenda behind what he is doing. Maybe he is trying to make you feel bad. When you ask him what he hopes to achieve with that, you will know exactly what he wants to do.
If you plan to make me feel bad, it will not work
You may not know what his plans are, but just let him know that if he plans to make you feel bad by calling you a bottom, tell him that whatever he hopes to achieve or if he is trying to make you feel bad, it is not going to work on you.
This is a good comeback that you can give.
You seem to be in a bad place, I can help you
For someone to say something that hurts you shows that the person is in a sad place too and he needs help.
Also, offer to help the person to get better, this shows how you are being the bigger person and also showing empathy towards the fact that the person is in a bad place.
The person will be surprised that you offer to help even after he has said something bad about you.
I did not realize that you were this rude
It is a rude thing for someone to call you a bottom. Tell this to the person that called you a bottom, it does not make any sense for the person to call you a bottom.
Reply to the person and tell him that you never knew that he was this rude. The person will understand that it was rude to do what he did.
I recommend you walk with your remote control
This is a good comeback that you can give, this shows you are not happy about what the person called you, also, you are indirectly telling the person that he talks without control and that he should try to walk with a remote control so that he will know when to stop.
With this comeback, the person will get the message and he will not call you a bottom anymore.
You talk a lot
This is a direct comeback to the person with whom he talks to a lot. Saying it this way is good because you are not mincing words at all.
You are telling him directly that he talks a lot and he should know when to keep his mouth shut.
This is a direct comeback to the person. When you tell him this, he will draw back a bit and he will understand that what he said was uncalled for.
Please do not speak if you do not have anything good to say
This is another direct comeback to the person that he should not in any way speak if he has nothing good to say to you.
This shows you know the person to an extent and you already know that he barely says good things.
Tell him that he should not even speak to you if he does not have anything good to say to you.
That way, he will understand that you are cautious of the kind of things you listen to and the people you have around you.
Is that the best you could think of?
Ask the person that off all things to say, is that the best he could think of?
This is a good comeback because it draws his attention to the fact that he had the opportunity to say something good to you and all he could think of was to call you a bottom.
This comeback shows that you expected more from him and you did not expect that he will call you a bottom.
I feel like you are worse than I am
This comeback could hurt, but that is what the comeback is for. Tell him that you feel he is even worse than you are.
That way, you communicate to him that you do not expect him to say much to you. But now that he has said it, you feel like the person is worse than you are.
This comeback will make the person feel bad about what he said to you. After giving this comeback, next time he will not say much to you.
Calling someone a bottom is not a nice thing to say at all, if you happen to get called a bottom, give this comeback and you will see the reaction.
You should think before you talk
This shows that the person barely thinks before he talks and you already know that. The person will feel offended that you told him to think before he talks, but that is the plan.
The comeback is to let the person know that you are not happy about what he said and to also make the person feel the same way he made you feel by calling you a bottom. This reply will make the person think next time,
I am ignoring you, Please do not interrupt me
This is a harsh comeback that communicates to the person that he is interrupting you as you are ignoring him.
The person may not be able to relate to this comeback until he thinks about it and understands what you meant.
This reply is harsh and not everyone will be able to understand what you said.
That is more reason why you need to tell him plainly that he should stop interrupting you as you are ignoring him. This is a sarcastic and harsh response.
You say crap all the time
This is a way of telling the person that what he says is crap and that since you knew him he has never said anything positive to you.
Tell him that he says crap all the time and it will be good if he tries his best to say something good at least.
When he understands that he says crap all the time, he will begin to take his time to say mean things to you. Not just to you, but to others as well.
I will give thanks for the day you say something that makes sense
This shows how happy you will be if he happens to say something that makes sense. It shows that he barely says anything good and if at all he says something that makes sense, it is on rare occasions.
Let him know that if he happens to say something that makes sense you are going to give thanks and you will be so happy about it.
This will draw his attention to the fact that he needs to start saying things that make sense so that people can start to take him seriously.
Now I know why no one likes you
Maybe nobody likes him and he does not know that people do not like him because he says things that are meaningless and people do not like it when you always have negative things to say about people.
Tell him that you now know that people do not like him because of the kind of things he says. Tell this to him, he may change.
I need you to not speak, Is that too much to ask?
Tell him this if you do not want to hear him speak at all because you already know that he has nothing good to say to you. It is not too much to ask, and he should know when to speak and when not to speak.
That way, he will understand that you do not want him to talk too much, especially when he is around you.
Final words
When someone says something nasty to you and you are not happy with what the person said, you can simply use a comeback that will pass the message to the person and it will also make the person not say such to you next time because he already knows that you do not like it.
These comebacks that I have shared with you will help a lot.